1. Review of Progress and Expected Timeline

• Are your plans going as expected?
• Different to plan? Does anything need to happen to support the new plan?
• Next steps – what, when, who, how? Any extra information needed?

2. Surrogate Support

• Has surrogate got enough support – Hands on? Emotional? Self care? Appreciation?
• Has surrogate’s partner got enough support – Hands on? Emotional? Self care? Appreciation?
• What else is needed - who or how will it be provided?
• Can you anticipate anything the surrogate might need that she is not asking for?
• Any future or post birth support needs that need to be organised now?

3. Pregnancy Progress

• Is everyone happy with how the pregnancy progress is being shared and Intended Parents involvement?
• Is attendance at appointments and sharing of information working?
• Anything need to change? Start? Stop? More? Less?

4. Financial

• Are all bills being paid?
• Are all incidentals being reimbursed?
• Is time off work being covered? Childcare etc?
• Is surrogate not mentioning any minor costs?
• Any change to agreed or expected incidentals?

5. Relationship and Communication

• What needs to stay the same because it is working well?
• What do you need more of because it is good but not enough?
• What do you need less of because it is not working?
• What needs to stop?

6. Agreements, Promises and Commitments

• What did you agree would be provided or done at this stage in the timeline or for what is happening now?
• Are there any expectations that are not being met? What needs to happen to amend this?
• Is there anything coming up soon that there were agreements and commitments attached to? Can these expectations still be met?

7. Difficult Events

• Anything difficult happened or happening?
• Is counselling or extra support needed?

8. Anything else?

• Open forum to bring up anything else.