1. Review of Progress and Expected Timeline
- Are your plans going as expected?
- Different to plan? Does anything need to happen to support the new plan?
- Next steps – what, when, who, how? Any extra information needed?
2. Surrogate Support
- Has surrogate got enough support – Hands on? Emotional? Self care? Appreciation?
- Has surrogate’s partner got enough support – Hands on? Emotional? Self care? Appreciation?
- What else is needed - who or how will it be provided?
- Can you anticipate anything the surrogate might need that she is not asking for?
- Any future or post birth support needs that need to be organised now?
3. Pregnancy Progress
- Is everyone happy with how the pregnancy progress is being shared and Intended Parents involvement?
- Is attendance at appointments and sharing of information working?
- Anything need to change? Start? Stop? More? Less?
- Are all bills being paid?
- Are all incidentals being reimbursed?
- Is time off work being covered? Childcare etc?
- Is surrogate not mentioning any minor costs?
- Any change to agreed or expected incidentals?
5. Relationship and Communication
- What needs to stay the same because it is working well?
- What do you need more of because it is good but not enough?
- What do you need less of because it is not working?
- What needs to stop?
6. Agreements, Promises and Commitments
- What did you agree would be provided or done at this stage in the timeline or for what is happening now?
- Are there any expectations that are not being met? What needs to happen to amend this?
- Is there anything coming up soon that there were agreements and commitments attached to? Can these expectations still be met?
7. Difficult Events
- Anything difficult happened or happening?
- Is counselling or extra support needed?
8. Anything else?
- Open forum to bring up anything else.